Faith Lived Out ~ God’s Wisdom for Marriage & Becoming a Submissive Wife

Learn to communicate well in your Christian marriage and you will build a foundation of oneness, trust, and unity that your marriage was designed to have. Not giving communication the attention it deserves leads to accusations, arguments, and living as roommates under the same roof.
Let me ask you: Do you have those meaningful conversations where your husband shares his thoughts and ideas? Does he come to you with his latest aha moments or accomplishments? Are you able to freely share your ideas and concerns — and know you'll be heard and your opinion considered?
Or do your conversations feel a bit more surface-level, more like coordinating schedules and managing logistics than truly connecting? Do you find your husband hiding out in another room, seemingly avoiding conversations and making decisions without your input?
If you're longing for better communication and true oneness in your marriage, you're in the right place. Today, I'm walking you through a simple but powerful 3-step process for building communication and unity with your husband.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
How to become the wife your husband wants to talk to
Why making small decisions together builds a powerful foundation of trust
How to navigate important decisions and disagreements with grace and biblical wisdom
 
Listen now — and take the next step toward the oneness God designed for your marriage.
 
Scripture References:
Genesis 2:24
Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
James 1:19
Proverbs 12:25
Proverbs 31:26
Colossians 4:6
Romans 15:5
Philippians 2:3–4
Ephesians 5:22–24
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this vulnerable episode of Faith Lived Out, I confess my own battle with pride in marriage and how it nearly destroyed my joy, my relationship with my husband, and my witness to my children. If you've ever struggled with control, defensiveness, or feeling like you know better than your husband, you're not alone. I've been there, and I'm sharing my personal stories of how pride gripped my heart and the biblical path to Christ-like humility that transformed my Christian marriage.
To prepare for this episode, I gave my husband the very rare opportunity to tell me how my pride adversely affected our marriage. From this, I share of how I accused him of thinking I was "stupid" just because he disagreed and of a time when I let my prideful heart steal my joy with my grandkids.
Today, isn't just about teaching, it's my testimony. Listen now to hear how God transformed my prideful heart and discover hope for your own journey toward biblical humility in marriage.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The 6 ways pride destroys marriage: How it leads to strife, pushes your husband away, hinders your prayers, tears down your home, sets a poor example for children, and damages trust
How to recognize pride in your own heart: Using Psalm 139:23-24 to invite God to search you and reveal prideful attitudes and selfish motives
The biblical path from pride to humility: Understanding that true humility is a work of God's Spirit—surrendering to God's ways and esteeming your husband above yourself 
Practical steps for godly wives: Prioritizing God, communicating respectfully, choosing battles wisely, being submissive, praying fervently, taking thoughts captive, and living righteously
 
Scripture References:
Psalm 139:23-24
Philippians 2:3
Proverbs 13:10
2 Corinthians 10:5
Proverbs 16:18
James 4:6
Ephesians 5:33
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
 

In this episode of Faith Lived Out, discover how to show respect to your husband through 10 biblical, practical ways that honor God's design for Christian marriage. A husband feels most deeply loved when his wife shows him genuine respect. A truth rooted in Scripture and God's unique design for men and women.
If you're a Christian wife seeking to honor your husband in a way that truly blesses him and reflects Christ's love, this episode is for you. Learn why respect serves as your husband's primary need in your relationship and how your actions and tone can transform your marriage from the inside out.
Whether you're struggling with respect in your marriage or simply want to grow as a godly wife, this episode offers biblical wisdom and practical application to strengthen your relationship and honor God.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• 10 practical ways to show respect to your husband in everyday life
• Why biblical submission and respect are acts of obedience to God
• How to communicate respect even when it feels challenging
• The powerful impact showing respect has on your husband
• Biblical foundations for your role in a godly marriage
 
Scripture References:
James 1:19
Ephesians 4:29
Ephesians 5:22
Proverbs 16:24
James 5:16
Proverbs 21:9
Ephesians 5:33
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Philippians
Proverbs 31:11
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Prayer is the Christian wife’s most powerful tool for her husband’s growth, and in this episode, I’m sharing how praying for God to work in your husband’s heart can bring real transformation to your marriage.
If you’ve ever felt the pressure to “fix” your husband or wondered if your prayers really make a difference, you’re not alone. I’ll show you how praying God’s Word and trusting the Holy Spirit can do what your own efforts never could.
Whether you’re longing for spiritual growth, stronger leadership, better communication, or deeper affection in your marriage, this episode will equip you with practical ways to pray for your husband in every area of his life. I’ll walk you through specific scriptures to pray, share my own prayer habits, and give you six practical steps to make your prayers more intentional and effective.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
Prayer is spiritual warfare and your greatest tool as a wife
Praying scripture aligns your heart with God’s will
Eight key areas to cover in prayer, with verses for each
Specific, personalized prayers bring real transformation
Trust God’s timing and persevere in prayer
 
Scripture References:
James 5:16
Colossians 1:9-11
Ephesians 5:23, 25-26
James 1:19
Ephesians 4:29
1 Peter 3:7
Romans 12:10-11
1 Timothy 5:8
Proverbs 16:9
Ephesians 5:28
Song of Solomon 7:10
Galatians 5:22-23
Ephesians 4:2
Proverbs 3:5-6
Matthew 6:33
Ephesians 6:4
1 Timothy 3:4-5
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

This Valentine’s Day, I want to invite you to discover how Christlike love can truly transform your Christian marriage from the inside out. In this special episode of Faith Lived Out, I’m sharing what it means to embrace selfless, sacrificial love in your marriage, not just for one day, but every day.
If you’ve ever felt the pressure to live up to the world’s romantic expectations or wondered how to rekindle a genuine connection with your husband, you’re not alone, and this episode is for you.
Together, we’ll explore biblical principles of Christlike love, practical ways to show selfless love to your husband, and how to overcome disappointment and unmet expectations in marriage.
I’ll walk you through seven creative, faith-centered ideas for rekindling romance, all rooted in God’s Word and designed to help you experience lasting joy and real marriage transformation.
Let's get started.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Understand the difference between worldly and Christlike love
Embrace selfless love as a cornerstone of your Christian marriage
Implement daily practices for marriage transformation
Experience deeper intimacy and joy through biblical love
 
Scripture References:
1 Corinthians 13:7-8
John 15:12-13
Proverbs 16:24
Philippians 2:3-4
Philippians 4:8
Psalm 16:11
Philippians 1:6
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Are you wondering how you’re doing as a submissive wife and what it means to honor God in your role?
In this episode, I invite you to join me for a gentle, honest self-check as we explore what it means to be a submissive wife and a godly Christian woman. I share my own journey, scriptural insights, and practical questions to help you reflect on your heart and your marriage.
Whether you’re just starting out or have been married for years, I want to encourage you with biblical wisdom and real-life application for your walk as a wife.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Biblical submission is about trusting God’s design, not losing your voice
Respect and humility are essential for a godly marriage
Every wife—including me—has areas to grow, and that’s okay
Honest self-check questions help us reflect and take action
God’s grace is sufficient for every step of our journey
 
Scripture References:
James 1:5
Joshua 1:8
Romans 14:12
Ephesians 5:22
1 Peter 3:1
Ephesians 4:31-32
Colossians 3:15
Philippians 2:3
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
🌷  Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable
 
🌷  Love & Tenderness Free Printable
 
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🌷  Blog, Journals & More Free Printables 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
 

Welcome to the best of 2025. Of the 52 episodes that were aired last year on the Faith Lived Out podcast, #108, 2 Essential First Steps To Becoming a Submissive Wife, was the one you listened to the most. Which as a Bible study teacher and submissive wife coach I think is great, because the episode teaches on the two steps that are the foundation for every woman who desires to become a godly wife. These are absolutely the two first things that you need to be successful in your marriage.
If you've listened to this in the past, this will be a great refresher for you, and if this is your first time hearing it, I hope you enjoy it as much as everyone else has. 
No matter how hard we try, no matter how determined we might be, we will not be successful at becoming a submissive wife, without first doing two essential steps.
Yes, we may make some strides here or there, but lasting change, a true change of the heart, only happens when we are willing to put these foundational steps into practice.
How do I know? Because I’ve been there. I was the young wife who desired to do marriage right. Who longed to have a loving marriage that stood the test of time. It was a commitment to these 2 principles that made the difference.
Join me as I share two essential steps that will help you start your journey off right in becoming the godly wife that you want to be. 
Let’s get started.
 
Scripture References
James 4:7-8, 10
Psalms 18:30
Ephesians 5:22
Galatians 5:19-21
2 Timothy 3:2-4
1 John 1:8-9
Romans 10:9-10
2 Peter 1:3-4
Joshua 1:8
John 14:16-17
Proverbs 31:30
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
 

In this episode, we'll explore how a godly wife’s transformation can change her marriage, bringing new life, peace, and unity. I will show you 6 biblical ways you can influence your marriage through spiritual growth, communication, respect, love, homemaking, and perseverance.
Whether you’re longing for deeper connection, better communication, or a more Christ-centered relationship, you’ll find practical encouragement and scriptural truth to help you take the next step to real change. Listen to discover how God can use your obedience to His Word to bless not only your marriage but your entire family.
Let’s get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
A wife’s spiritual growth is a catalyst for positive change in marriage.
Biblical communication builds unity and trust.
Respect and submission are essential for marital harmony.
Christlike love and affection strengthen the marital bond.
A peaceful, well-managed home honors God and blesses the family.
Faith and perseverance help overcome marital challenges.
 
Scripture References:
Matthew 6:33
Josua 1:8
Proverbs 31:30
Romans 8:28
Ephesians 4:29
Proverbs 18:21
Proverbs 31:26
Ephesians 5:22-24, 33
1 Peter 3:1-2
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
Titus 2:5
Proverbs 31:27
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
Isaiah 41:10
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
🌷  Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable
 
🌷  Love & Tenderness Free Printable
 
🌷  6 Steps to Resolving Conflict Cheat Sheet
 
🌷  Blog, Journals & More Free Printables 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this episode, I share 6 biblical ways you and your husband can truly work as a team in your Christian marriage. I’ll walk you through what God’s Word says about unity, trust, and partnership, and offer practical steps you can take to build a stronger, more joyful relationship with your husband.
Whether you’re feeling disconnected or simply want to grow closer, I’ll equip you with strategies and encouragement to help you experience the joy and strength that comes from working together as a team, all for God’s glory.
Let's get started.
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Teamwork in Christian marriage is rooted in God’s design for unity and partnership.
 
Embracing your role as a helpmate brings strength and balance to your marriage.
 
Open communication and shared decision-making are essential for unity.
 
Trust and spiritual intimacy grow as you work together and put each other first.
 
Shifting from “mine” and “yours” to “ours” creates a strong foundation for your family.
 
Practical steps and real-life examples help you apply these truths today.
 
Scripture References:
Genesis 2:24-25
Ephesians 5:29, 31
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Philippians 2:3-4
Proverbs 31:11
Psalms 37:3
James 1:19-20
Ephesians 4:15
 
 
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives for a time of learning, sharing ideas, Q & A, encouragement, and more! Join us!
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
 
🌷  Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable
 
🌷  Love & Tenderness Free Printable
 
🌷  6 Steps to Resolving Conflict Cheat Sheet
 
🌷  Blog, Journals & More Free Printables 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Are you longing for a new beginning in your marriage as the new year begins? Has there been challenges, disappointments, or do you feel that you and your husband have grown distant this past year? And now you’re yearning for a deeper connection and renewed joy in your relationship. 
This episode is for every wife who wants to break free from old patterns, let go of past hurts, and discover how God’s grace, forgiveness, and hope can help you and your husband start fresh—no matter what last year held. 
Together, we’ll explore practical, biblical steps to renew your relationship, restore your hope, and embrace God’s beautiful design for your marriage in the year ahead. If you’re ready for a fresh start to real change and lasting growth, today is for you.
Let’s get started.
 
Scripture References:
Psalms 139-23-24
Romans 5:8
Psalms 43:5
1 John 1:9
1 Peter 3:4
1 John 3:18
 
Referenced Episode
139 ~ How to Relieve Stress & Bring Contentment to Your Marriage With a Simple Change of Focus
 
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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. In it you will learn what it means to be a submissive wife, how to respect your husband, and how following God's commands for your life will transform your marriage. Get your copy today!
 
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🌷A.C.T.S Spiral Prayer Journal with prompts to help you have a focused, confident and effective prayer life.
 
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🌼  Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable
 
🌼  Love & Tenderness Free Printable
 
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🌼  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌼  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.