Godly Wife | Biblical Marriage | Submissive Wife ~ Faith Lived Out

If you have ever quietly wondered whether following your husband's lead means slowly losing who you are, this episode is for you. That fear is more common than you might think, and today I want to walk you through what Scripture actually says about it. Because here is the truth I want you to hold onto: being a godly wife was never designed to erase you. It was designed to free you.
Whether your marriage is hard right now or you simply want to grow in your calling, I believe you are going to come away from this episode feeling lighter, freer, and more confident in who God made you to be.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ KEY TAKEAWAYS
Why Ephesians 5:22 changes everything about how you understand submission and your own identity
The real reason so many wives begin to feel like they are disappearing, and how to find your footing again
What it means to be a helpmate, and why the biblical picture of that role is one of strength, not silence
How to share your voice and your wisdom while still honoring your husband's leadership
Five practical steps you can take this week to stay rooted, whole, and fully yourself as a godly wife
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Ephesians 5:22
Genesis 2:18
1 Timothy 5:14
Proverbs 31:11
Proverbs 31:16
Proverbs 31:24
Acts 5:29
Proverbs 14:1
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Biblical submission is one of the most searched and most misunderstood topics among Christian wives, and this episode builds a definition that is grounded in Scripture, free of distortion, and full of hope.
Whether you've been handed a version of submission that felt controlling or diminishing, or you've simply never heard it explained in a way that made sense, this episode is for you. The world has distorted this calling. The enemy has weaponized it. And even the church has sometimes taught it poorly. But God's design for your marriage is not meant to make your life smaller. It is meant to make it richer.
If you've feared this word or wrestled with it, this episode will give you a definition that is true, clear, and full of genuine hope.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ KEY TAKEAWAYS
Biblical submission begins and ends with God, not with your husband's performance or worthiness.
Submission is a difference in function and role — never in worth or value before God.
A submissive wife is not silent or passive. She brings her wisdom, perspective, and gifts to the marriage and trusts her husband to lead.
Every act of genuine submission is an act of worship. You are responding to God, not just to your husband.
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Ephesians 5:22
Genesis 1:27
Galatians 3:28
1 Peter 3:7
Acts 5:29
Philippians 2:14
Jeremiah 17:5
Genesis 2:18
Proverbs 16:9
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
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Thank You for listening!♥️
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this Christian marriage Q&A, I sit down with some heartfelt questions from wives who love their husbands and want to honor God in their homes. We talk about how to respect a husband who hears every question as an attack, how to handle fear when a husband feels distant in a stressful season, and how to support a husband through a personal struggle without judgment or nagging.
Together, we walk through scriptural based encouragement that guides us through how to love our husbands through the hard days. 
Because many of us have the same struggles in marriage, I invite you to listen carefully as I am fairly sure you will see yourself in on of these questions.
Let's get started
 
➡️SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
 
Ephesians 5:33
Ephesians 4:29
2 Timothy 1:7
2 Corinthians 10:5
Isaiah 26:3
John 14:26
Proverbs 27:15
Colossians 1:9-11
1 Corinthians 10:13
Philippians 4:6-7
Psalms 55:22
Matthew 6:33
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
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Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
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🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
 

Physical intimacy in marriage can be one of the hardest topics for a Christian wife to talk about, especially when her husband is the one pulling away. Today, I’m talking honestly, biblically, and privately about what may be happening when sexual intimacy fades in marriage and why this is not something to ignore or carry in silence.
This episode is not for little ears, but it is for the wife who feels confused, rejected, ashamed, or afraid to ask what is really going on.
We will look at possible causes, including medical concerns, pornography, past wounds, stress, relational disconnect, and spiritual warfare. More importantly, we will go to God’s Word for wisdom, hope, and practical next steps.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why physical intimacy in marriage matters to God
Possible reasons your husband may be pulling away
Why a wife must examine her own heart first
How to approach the conversation as a “we problem”
How prayer and Scripture help you fight for your marriage
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Proverbs 4:23
1 Peter 3:3-4
Matthew 5:28
Matthew 5:32
Ephesians 5:31-33
1 Corinthians 7:5
1 Peter 3:3-4, referenced again
Matthew 7:3-5
Philippians 2:3-4
Hebrews 12:15
Psalm 139:23-24
James 1:5
Colossians 1:9-11
Ephesians 6:11-12
1 John 1:9
2 Corinthians 5:17
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
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🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Are you not attracted to your husband anymore and wondering what that means for your marriage? In this episode, I’m talking about a tender subject many wives struggle with quietly: what to do when emotional or physical attraction has faded.
The world may tell you that falling out of love means you made a mistake or that it is time to leave. But God calls us to something deeper than feelings. He calls us to covenant love. Together, we’ll look at what Scripture says about choosing love, honoring the marriage bed, guarding your thoughts, and asking God to change your heart when you feel distant, numb, or weary.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why fading attraction is not a verdict on your marriage
The difference between contract thinking and covenant love
Why biblical love is an action, not just a feeling
How physical intimacy matters even in difficult seasons
How to pray for God to soften and renew your heart
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Genesis 2:24Matthew 19:61 Corinthians 13:4-7Philippians 4:8Colossians 3:23-24Hebrews 13:41 Corinthians 7:3-5John 15:5Psalm 139:23-24Romans 15:5Galatians 5:22-23
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
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🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
 

Rebuilding emotional intimacy in your marriage is possible and today, I'm walking you through six practical, biblical steps to help you reconnect with your husband. Whether the drift has just begun or you've felt the distance for years, God's Word has everything you need to close that gap and move from disconnected co-existing back to a genuine, deep oneness.
This is Part 2 of our emotional intimacy series. In Part 1, we looked at the roommate drift, the leftovers habit, and the enemy's strategy to destroy your connection. If you haven't listened to Episode 180 yet, I encourage you to start there.
Now it's time to do something about it. Listen now to take the first step toward rebuilding the emotional intimacy your marriage was designed to have.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ DISCOVER
Why forgiveness is the first and most necessary step — and how it's an act of obedience, not a feeling
How to identify the enemy's lies about your husband and replace them with God's truth
What it means to create a safe place where your husband can be vulnerable with you
Why intentional listening is one of the most powerful reconnection tools you have
Simple, consistent habits that keep the love lines open every single day
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Colossians 3:14
Ephesians 4:32
Hebrews 8:12
2 Corinthians 10:5
Ephesians 5:33
Genesis 2:25
Proverbs 31:11
Proverbs 31:26
James 1:19
1 Corinthians 7:3–5
Galatians 6:9
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
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🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Emotional intimacy in marriage is something every wife longs for, but something far too many are quietly losing and you're not sure why or how to get it back.
In this episode, I'm digging into the quiet epidemic of emotional intimacy loss in Christian marriage. What I call the "roommate drift" happens slowly, logistics replace real conversations, busyness crowds out connection, and phones replace presence in the same room.
I'll take you back to the beginning to remind you what God designed: a leaving, a joining, and a becoming one flesh that goes far deeper than the surface.
But here is what many wives don't realize, there is a real enemy working behind the scenes, feeding lies and deliberately creating distance in your most important earthly relationship. I'll help you identify the drift, recognize the enemy's strategy, and take practical steps toward the deep, vulnerable oneness God always intended for your marriage.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ DISCOVER
Why emotional distance rarely starts with a fight and what actually causes the drift
The "leftovers habit" and how it quietly steals connection from your marriage
Why the enemy specifically targets emotional intimacy and the lies he uses to widen the gap
What Scripture teaches about oneness, presence, and guarding the little foxes
Practical steps to begin rebuilding the deep connection God designed for your marriage
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Genesis 2:24-25
Song of Solomon 2:15
Matthew 6:33
1 Peter 5:8
2 Corinthians 10:5
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Physical intimacy in Christian marriage is one of the most avoided conversations in the church, but God did not avoid it, and neither will I.
In this episode, I address the intimacy gap that so many couples quietly live with, going straight to Scripture for answers. God designed physical intimacy as a holy gift within the covenant of marriage as a one-flesh union that is honorable, undefiled, and worth protecting. I walk through six common reasons Christian couples struggle, from the residue of shame and purity culture wounds to the dangerous habit of withholding intimacy as a weapon.
Whether intimacy is simply a low priority right now or you are navigating something deeper, this episode will give you biblical grounding and practical next steps to move toward your husband.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ KEY TAKEAWAYS
Physical intimacy is God's holy design for a husband and wife — it is a gift to celebrate, not a source of shame.
The respect and love cycle is directly connected to physical intimacy. When one breaks down, the other is affected.
Six common reasons Christian couples struggle: residue of shame, the respect/love disconnect, giving leftovers, pornography, withholding as a weapon, and physical or hormonal barriers.
Withholding intimacy is not a neutral act. Scripture addresses it directly in 1 Corinthians 7:5.
Reconnecting starts with intentional choices: planning time together, building affection outside the bedroom, communicating openly, and renewing your mind with Scripture.
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Genesis 2:24
Genesis 2:25
Song of Solomon 2:16
Song of Solomon 7:10
Hebrews 13:4
1 Corinthians 13 (general reference)
John 15:12–13
Hebrews 8:12
Ephesians 5:33
1 Corinthians 7:3–4
Matthew 5:28
1 Corinthians 7:5
1 John 1:9
2 Corinthians 5:17
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

What matters to God when you pray goes far deeper than the words you speak. If you have ever felt like your prayers weren't reaching heaven, or wondered why God seems silent, this episode is exactly what you need.
God is not a vending machine for your wishes. He is a Father who is moved by humble, surrendered hearts, and there are four specific things He looks for every time you come to Him in prayer. When you understand these four things, your prayer life will never be the same.
This episode will move you from frustrated, self-focused prayer to the confident, God-honoring surrender prayer of a godly wife.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ KEY TAKEAWAYS
Why your prayers may not be working — It may not be a lack of effort but rather the motive behind the request.
How your daily walk with God directly affects your prayers — A sobering truth every wife needs to hear about what can quietly block God's ear.
What biblical faith in prayer actually looks like — True faith is not demanding a specific outcome from God. It is trusting His character and sovereignty even when His answer is "no" or "not yet."
How to pray with the kind of surrender that changes everything — Like Jesus in Gethsemane, you can learn to release your will to His and find deep, lasting peace in the process.
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Isaiah 55:8-9
James 4:3
James 5:16
Psalm 66:18
Proverbs 15:29
1 Peter 3:7
Hebrews 11:6
James 1:5-8
Mark 11:24
Daniel 3:17-18
Jeremiah 33:3
1 John 5:14-15
2 Corinthians 12:9
Romans 8:28
Luke 22:42
 
🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls  ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to? Book a call for clear biblical advice. 
 
Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Social media may be the most subtle threat to your Christian marriage today. In this episode, I am teaching through four ways social media quietly works against the covenant you have made with your husband: it breeds comparison and envy, it steals your time and presence, it fills your mind with unbiblical marriage advice, and it erodes the trust your husband needs from you.
I will walk you through exactly what God's Word says about each of these dangers and give you five practical steps to guard your marriage this week. If you have ever felt that quiet ache of comparison while scrolling, or found yourself on your phone when your husband is right beside you, this episode is for you.
Let's get started.
 
➡️ KEY TAKEAWAYS
Comparison from social media breeds envy and communicates dissatisfaction to your husband. Contentment is a learned discipline, not an automatic feeling.
"Phubbing" creates real emotional disconnection. Your husband needs your full presence more than your phone needs your attention.
Any marriage advice you receive online must be filtered through the full counsel of Scripture, not popular opinion or verses taken out of context.
Oversharing private marriage details online violates the sacredness of the marriage covenant and publicly dishonors your husband.
 
➡️ SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
James 3:16
Philippians 4:11
Ephesians 5:15-16
James 1:19
Colossians 2:8
Ephesians 5:33
1 Peter 3:1
2 Timothy 4:3-4
Romans 12:2
Proverbs 31:11
Proverbs 11:13
Hebrews 13:4
 
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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!
 
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Thank You for listening!♥️
Love the Podcast? Please leave a review. Your support helps us to reach more wives and help more marriages with the truth of God's Word.
🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.
 
🌷Likeminded Wives Gathering  
Free zoom meeting every 2nd & 4th Tuesday with myself and other Christian wives. Learn More!
 
🌷  Resources for Christian Wives 
 
🌷  Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB
 
🌷  Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com
 
Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.